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A Nurse's Path to Ditching the Stress of Others' Opinions!!!

The clock strikes 6:30 AM, and you're at the hospital, coffee in hand, mentally prepared for another bustling 12-hour shift. You’re a nurse, a modern-day superhero, but there's one villain that seems to always get in your way - the worry about what your colleagues think of you. Sounds familiar? Well, fret not, dear my fellow nurse hold my beer because this is your guide to conquering that nasty, anxiety-ridden beast.

Picture this: I'm a newbie in a bustling post Liver Transplant Floor at University Hospital in Newark New Jersey, my stethoscope so new it shines like a knight's armor. It's the first time I'm giving an IV, and you can bet my heart is pounding harder than a drummer at a rock concert. I look around, and suddenly, it feels like every nurse in the department has transformed into a judge on America's Got Talent. Their eyes seem to say, "Will he nail it or fail it?" Spoiler alert: I fumbled, and it was not pretty.

Now, you might expect me to say that was the day I fell into a pit of despair, questioning my career choices. But nope! And not me,I came here to the United States on an H1B (working visa) as a nurse and worked my way up to pass my NCLEX licensure for my American dream. I made a choice - I chose to learn, grow, and above all, stop worrying about the peanut gallery. It's like watching a horror movie; the monsters aren't as scary when you stop and realize they're just really good makeup and computer-generated imagery with special effects.

So, how do you overcome this worry? Firstly, remember, nursing isn't a solo act; it's an ensemble performance. Each nurse brings their unique expertise to the table, and you're a critical piece of this healthcare jigsaw puzzle. When those sneaky worries creep up, saying, "You're not as experienced as Jane" or "Your technique isn't as smooth as Jose," remember you're not Jane or Paul. You're you, and that's your superpower.

Secondly, embrace the not-so-great moments. Bungled an IV? Accidentally called a doctor by the wrong name over the intercom? Turn those red-face moments into stepping stones. As I tell my fellow nurses, every mistake is not a disaster, but a Masterclass in disguise. You're learning on the job, and there's no tuition fee for these lessons as long as no patient harm is involved..

Remember, everyone's a critic, but not every review deserves your attention. You wouldn't trust a Yelp reviewer who only rates tomato soup, would you? Similarly, not every opinion is informed or objective. Filtering out constructive criticism from mere noise is like finding that one quirky Christmas sock in a pile of laundry – it takes practice, but it's worth the effort. I know….

You see, worrying about what other nurses think of you is like chasing a slippery soap bar in the shower - it's frustrating, exhausting, and you'll probably end up getting soap in your eyes. Your goal, like a shower, is to get clean, not to juggle soap. In nursing terms, your aim is to provide the best care possible to your patients, not to win an imaginary popularity contest among your nursing colleagues.

In the grand drama of healthcare, remember that every nurse has their act. Some may seem to effortlessly glide through their lines, while others might stutter or miss a beat. But guess what? Each of these performances are unique, genuine, and serve a purpose. In a world that often feels like a never-ending episode of Grey's Anatomy, you are not an extra. You're the star of your own show, my friend!

Have you ever seen a toddler learning to walk? They stumble, fall, get up, and then fall again. Yet, they giggle, clap, and waddle around with a joy that's infectious. Now imagine if we nurses adopted this same spirit. What if we treated every stumble not as a blunder, but a dance move like Meringue 💃🕺in our unique healthcare boogie?

When you're just starting out, it might seem like everyone else in the nursing station is performing a well-choreographed ballet while you're stuck in a freestyle hip-hop routine. Trust me, even the most poised and flawless nurses have had their moments of awkward shuffling. They've faced the music, tripped over a step or two, and yet, they've continued to dance. And that's the rhythm of growth, my friend!

Remember the adage, "Laughter is the best medicine"? It holds in nursing too! Inject a dose of humor into your daily routine. Those shared laughs and inside jokes can strengthen bonds among colleagues, easing tensions and replacing worry with camaraderie. After all, the world of healthcare might be stressful, but who said it couldn't use a good chuckle?

It's also essential to cultivate a habit of self-compassion. If you wouldn't harshly judge a colleague who made a mistake, why do it to yourself? Every time self-doubt creeps in, counter it with a hefty dose of self-love. It's not egotistical; it's like topping up your emotional energy tank, enabling you to continue your heroic efforts on the healthcare battlefield.

So, my fellow nurses, the next time you find yourself in the throes of worry, remember these words. You're a phenomenal nurse. You're a vital part of the healthcare machine, and every step you take, whether a confident stride or a stumble, is a step forward. Keep that chin up, strut your stuff, and let that stethoscope shine, not with newness, but with the patina of experiences that make you the amazing nurse you are today.

And finally, keep the lines of communication open. Share your concerns, ask for advice, and value the feedback you receive. Most nurses have been exactly where you are, navigating the same seas of worry. Their experiences, wisdom, and encouragement can serve as your compass, guiding you towards calmer waters.

To wrap it all up, nursing is an art, a dance, and yes, occasionally, a comedy show. But above all, it's a journey. So embrace the missteps, celebrate the triumphs, and remember - what other nurses think of you is far less important than what you think of yourself. Your self-perception is the melody that sets the tempo for your nursing dance. So go ahead, put on your dancing shoes, and let your unique rhythm shine through.

Stay Hard 💪 💪💪

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